No matter how the wolf plays the role of "kind grandmother" and vows to be a vegetarian from now on, it is difficult to change the nature of eating sheep, but if it is completely killed, sheep are prone to plague; It is inevitable that two tigers will fight together, but once the hero is lonely, he does not need to be locked in the fence, and even the fierce tiger will degenerate into a sick cat. Treating your opponent as a friend is a higher level of tolerance.
President Lincoln has always been known for tolerating political opponents, which finally caused dissatisfaction among a member of Congress. The congressman said, "You shouldn't try to make friends with those people, but destroy them." Lincoln smiled and replied, "When they become my friends, am I not destroying my enemies?" Yes, a more tolerant and open opponent may be our potential friend.
Who has made the greatest contribution to the Three Gorges Project? Pan, a famous water conservancy engineer, said in response to a question from a foreign reporter: "Those who oppose the Three Gorges Project have made the greatest contribution to the Three Gorges Project." The existence of opponents can keep a clear head and do things more comprehensively. It can inspire your courage to accept challenges and generate the potential to show your life. This is not simple tolerance, but sharpening your will and sharpening your life edge.
Although I don't agree with you, I have an obligation to defend your right to speak. As many people know, this sentence contains the tolerant democratic core. Bad words in June hurt people. If you have a tolerant heart, use it as an air conditioner to cool down in hot summer.
Tolerance is a kind of beauty. Only when the deep sky tolerates the temporary ravages of lightning storms can it be clear. The vast sea is boundless only when the stormy waves are raging for a while; The vast forest temporarily endured the law of the jungle and was lush. A river can be great only if it doesn't choose small streams. Tolerance is the towering Mount Tai, and it is the rivers and lakes that accommodate all rivers and lakes.
When dealing with friends, tolerance is the gold for Guan Zhong. He doesn't care about Guan Zhong's selfishness and understands Guan Zhong's fear of death. He also recommended Guan Zhong to Qi Huangong as his boss.
Treating people with tolerance is the torch of Emperor Guangwu burning books to defect to the enemy. When Liu Xiu defeated Wang Lang and invaded Handan, he found many letters that flattered Wang Lang, insulted Liu Xiu and even planned to kill Liu Xiu. But Liu Xiu turned a blind eye to this and ignored the opposition of all ministers. He let bygones be bygones, turned enemies into friends, strengthened his own strength and finally became emperor. The fire was put out.
You should tolerate other people's different opinions, exclude or even frame them, because you know that what scares your opponent is your strength. You should also know that grass growing in crevices can withstand wind and rain best. Cynicism can just "cold compress" your fiery mind; The little shoes given to you may make you jump out of the wonderful "ballet" on the stage; A blow to you, like a barbell in an athlete's hand, will only increase your explosive power. Bitterness is a double-edged sword, which eventually cuts itself; Answer blows with blows can only show that your "teeth" are falling off; Blood boiling is the most likely cause of "hypertension". "One foot crushed the violet, but it left a fragrance on the heel, and that is forgiveness." andrew matheus said such an inspiring sentence in The Heart of Tolerance.