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Good night, history and appreciation of American literature.
The so-called caution is to be careful what you say. Think twice before you do anything important, and don't say anything that hurts others or you can't do it yourself.

A person's speech reflects his accomplishment and keeps his word. He can do it if he says it, or he might as well not say it.

Those irresponsible remarks and arbitrary boasting are bound to lose faith in others and harm others and themselves.

The Analects of Confucius? "Politics" describes such a dialogue: Zi Gong asked the teacher how to be a gentleman, and Confucius told him, "Say what you say first, and then do it."

To be a man, we should try our best to be consistent in words and deeds, and those who can control their mouths are wise people.

A close mouth catches no flies. If you say it, you can't take it back. You must first think about what to say and what not to say.

The way you treat others reflects your education level. The more boastful people are, the less connotation they appear. The richer people are, the calmer they are, which is also a reflection of their own knowledge pattern.

A person who knows how to speak carefully will not always put himself on his lips, but will inadvertently expose your vanity and inferiority.

Don't blame others too much, you will suffer if you talk too much, and vulgar remarks will make you shallow.

In life, we often see some people constantly complaining, complaining about the unsatisfactory life, complaining that others are not good to themselves, complaining about the unfair fate, and talking endlessly when they meet people.

You know, when you talk about your disappointments, people may also have their own disappointments, and your negative emotions are a burden to others.

In fact, everyone has their own life trajectory, and they will encounter troubles of one kind or another. Why are you talking about all this? No one is obligated to share anything for you.

Therefore, you have the right to relieve stress by telling others, but more often, silence is also a process of self-digestion, and silence is sometimes a great virtue.

No matter how kind you are, there will always be people accusing you. No matter how good you do, there will always be people questioning you, so don't care what others say.

If you care too much, you will get tired. Life is not easy, so don't bother yourself.

A hundred rivers are full of tolerance. If you are broad-minded, why do you complain?

As the saying goes, a good word warms three winters, and a bad word hurts in June. There will be some people who make trouble all the time.

Make a chicken fly a dog to jump, only if the world is not chaotic and fast, such people will always be avoided.

You know, inappropriate remarks and expressions are sometimes like an invisible sharp knife, which inadvertently hurts others.

Ask yourself, if you build your happiness on the pain of others and hurt others, will you really get happiness?

When quarreling with others, you should value peace and try not to hurt others on the premise of not hurting yourself. This is what Buddhists say.

If everyone can plant the seeds of kindness and compassion in their hearts, then our life will surely be a breeze lingering and blooming step by step.

People who like to see the advantages of others and know how to praise them will also feel warm when they are close. Good words and deeds are a ray of sunshine, illuminating yourself and others.

Sometimes, your encouraging words can stimulate a person's potential, and your kind words can even change a person's fate, warm others and accumulate virtues for themselves. Why not?

People don't have to have much meaning to live, but try to be a good person, try to integrate into the circle, and constantly expand their own pattern and vision.

Don't worry about trifles, don't haggle over every ounce, and always pay attention to your words and deeds. Talk well, do things practically, and try to be a happy person that others like.