In ancient feudal society, women usually stayed in boudoir before marriage, let alone met men. So there is no free love at all, which is not free compared with modern times. At that time, the marriage between men and women was mainly conducted by matchmakers. So how did the ancient matchmakers protect the media?

First, walk around every day and collect information.

In ancient times, men and women were very particular about being suitable for each other. Then at this time, the matchmaker must have enough information to carry out the next operation, so these matchmakers will collect information from house to house in their daily lives. By going door to door, the matchmaker learned about the situation of each household on the one hand, and mastered the men and women of appropriate age on the other hand.

Second, act as a medium.

In ancient times, men and women were not allowed to meet before marriage, because it was unlucky. So the matchmaker completely acts as the middle medium. She needs to truthfully reflect her actual situation to both parties, and at the same time use skills to make both parties notice each other's advantages. In this way, the matchmaker needs to walk back and forth between the two parties and send messages to both men and women.

Third, the arrangement of marriage.

Through the communication of the matchmaker, both men and women have decided to get married, so it is necessary to arrange the marriage process, which is also managed by the matchmaker. This mainly includes a series of things such as giving a bride price, getting engaged, choosing a wedding date, and taking the man to the woman's house to pay homage on the wedding day, which is equivalent to the current master of ceremonies.